Friday, May 15

Purpose/mission in ones living and ONE just has to be persistent to find it!!!


Once there was a man who did not make it to university. His mother got him married. After the marriage, he worked as a teacher in a primary school. Due to the lack of experience, he was squashed by the students in less than a week.

When he returned home, his wife dried his tears. She comforted him with these words. 'You should not be too sad about it. Probably there is a more suitable job waiting for you out there.'

Later on, he found another job and before long he was fired due to his slowness. This time, the wife commented. 'There are always people who are skillful and non skillful. Some have experience from their years of work. As for you, you were in school all this while. So, how could you acquire these needed skills?'

He went for a number of jobs but never stayed long in those jobs. Each time, he would return home with a dejected spirit. His wife would always comfort him and never once was she disappointed or resentful.

He was in his thirties when he acquired a flair in languages. He became a counselor in a school for the deaf and mute. Later on, he opened a school for the disabled. A few years later, he set up chain stores in different cities and provinces selling apparatus and equipment for the disabled. He became a multi-millionaire.

One day he asked his wife. 'When I was looking bleakly at my own future, what's the reason that you had so much faith in me?'

His wife gave him a very simple reply. She said, 


'When a piece of land is not suitable for planting wheat, we could try planting beans. If the beans are not growing well, we could try planting fruits or gourds. If the vegetation is not economical, we can instead scatter buckwheat seeds. These seeds will one day bloom into flowers. On this land itself, there will be one seed that will germinate and grow.'

After listening to his wife's explanation, he cried. His wife's faith, love, patience, and persistence is likened to the one seed in the land. This is the seed that persists and creates the miracle on this piece of land.

"In this world, there's no person who is useless. It is just that they have not positioned themselves firmly in the right place"

God does not create useless creatures. There is ALWAYS some purpose/mission. You just have to persist and find it!!!


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I can see myself in this story and there are many others out there who will feel the same.  The ultimate goal and vision should always be in mind and one should always be on the lookout for the opportunity that could make your life meaningful and fruitful...

Friday, August 1

A precious gift!

Such a beautiful gift any person can get. ma daughter Urvi appreciating her mother for being there for her to get 1st price for Group Song and 2nd prize for English speech. Nice gesture from a 6 year old...  This is a treasure...


Thursday, June 26

This is the real life!

There was a man with four wives. He loved his fourth wife the most and took a great care of her and gave her the best. He also loved his third wife and always wanted to show her off to his friends. However, he was always had a fear that she might runaway with some other man. He loved his second wife too. Whenever he faced some problems, he always turned to his second wife and she would always help him out. He did not love his first wife though she loved him deeply, was very loyal to him and took great care of him. One day the man fell very ill and knew that he is going to die soon.

He told himself, "I have four wives with me. I will take one of them along with me when I die to keep company in my death."

Thus, he asked the fourth wife to die along with him and keep company. "No way!" she replied and walked away without another word.

He asked his third wife. She said "Life is so good over here. I'm going to remarry when you die".

He then asked his second wife. She said "I'm Sorry. I can't help you this time around. At the most I can only accompany you till your grave."

By now his heart sank and turned cold.

Then a voice called out: "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." the man looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the man said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have!"

Actually, we all have four wives in our lives.

a. The fourth wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when w die.

b. The third wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they go to others.

c. The second wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

d. The first wife is our soul, neglected in our pursuit of material wealth and pleasure. It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. 

Tuesday, June 10

Food for Thought - The importance of thanking GOD!


The importance of thanking GOD for all the things he has given us (positive) and not for the things we desire he gives.  In simple words "learn to say Thank you" for anything that comes your way, surely this habit will make you a better person

Wednesday, June 4

Flipkart and AmazonIndia...

Well I was asked by DEALS AND READS (on Twitter: @dealsandreads)
Hi Arun. We cover shopping reviews. Have you observed any difference between Amazon and Flipkart? We would love to know :)

I wanted to share my experience of online purchase and this question made me not delay the exercise further.

I have been using #flipkart for about a 18 months now and have been their die-hard fan for buying books, toys and gifts, however this changed with #AmazonIndia coming to the market. (I never liked #junglee.com )

Well this time around I was in a mood to buy some books and when looking online on these two portals realized that the prices were same as with the delivery lead time.

However maximum purchase was done on AmazonIndia for a simple reason "no extra charges for deliveries", where as Flipkart was charging me Rs. 40 per book. (it would have costed me Rs. 300 extra over the books cost price) which was ridiculous, unless flipkart has too much business that they do not care.

Now the best deceitful part on #flipkart anything bought through their mobile app comes with free delivery (this is cheating, to say the least). This is not justifiable and is a compulsion on prospective buyers to use the app forcefully. I don't like this part and to get over this I bought 3 more books from AmazonIndia.

I must accept that the mobile app of flipkart is easy navigate through but I found making payments via debit card was a concern and it failed (not a problem via laptop/desktop tho), so here in this case I had to choose cash on delivery instead and had to request my friend to pay and receive on my behalf. 

As for the choice i found that AmazonIndia has more books and the recommendations are more better in comparison and relevant to they type of books I have browsed.

Will I continue to used Flipkart, "YES", but now I have another platform to compare the offers and choose what suits me better. its that simple. BUT IF FLIPKART DOES NOT DO ANYTHING TO THE DELIVERY CHARGES POLICY, .............?????

Sunday, June 1

New books...

I have ordered through #FlipKart and #AmazonIndia the below books and now waiting for my friend to bring them from India to UAE.








Wednesday, May 21

My new blog... (I can do it...)


Yes, the above statement is very true. I am heavy with BMI at 33 and weight 101.8kgs when I started. Now it is almost 10 days through with my efforts to loose weight and gain some shape.


and I believe in the below too...



Sunday, July 28

"One Idiot" An IDFC Foundation Initiative

An eye opening video about an so called "IDIOT" to a common man. The video presents "MONEY" in the most simplest ways possible. Very inspiring!



This 30 minutes will change the way you look at money and how to make MONEY work for you...!

Also, take time to check:

Website:     http://oneidiot.in/
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/oneidiotthemovie
Youtube:     http://www.youtube.com/user/OneIdiotTheMovie?feature=watch

Please do give it a thought and it is never too late to start thinking about Financial Planning and how to make money work for you rather than the other way.

I am yet to start, but will surely do!

Wednesday, March 13

Shiva Trilogy by Amish Tripathy


Anyone who loves reading fictions, ought to admit that our Mythology has enough resource in it that is yet unexplored. I am not a voracious reader of book and I do not have a pattern to what I read. I pick book that can kindle my interest.

I got to know about the Shiva Trilogy from many and also the many reviews about the two installments “Immortals of Meluha” and “The Secret of Nagas”.

 “Immortals of Meluha”. It’s the first book of the Shiva Trilogy by Amish Tripathy.

The book is written in simple English and is very easy to understand. I soon realised that my apprehension about the handling of such mythical characters and the events to follow in the story was pleasant and the transition and connection from mythology to fiction to history was flawless. All the characters became more and more humane and myths started becoming historical facts. Shiva ceased to be the God we worship but is a tribal hed then to that of a hero, a warrior, a lover, a husband, a father, a respected leader and in the end to the Shiva that we are familiar with...

In “Immortals of Meluha”, the progression of a tribal head to a leader was so captivating, that I was unable to put the book down even for a while. It was unstoppable.

Not to give you some idea about the plot, the story happens to a major part in the near perfect empire of Meluha. This empire was created many centuries earlier by one of the greatest emperor Lord Ram and the subsequent rulers and people are terms as “Suryavanshi’s”. The primary river of the empire is the revered Saraswati and this river is very essential to their existence. This empire is faced with incessant terrorist attacks from the east, the land of the Chandravanshis (Ayodhya) who have joined forces with the Nagas (a cursed race with physical deformities).

Daksha is the king of Meluha and he sends his messengers to Tibet and far of land to invite tribes to migrate and live in Meluha. One of the invited tribes from Tibet is the Gunas, whose chief Shiva is a brave warrior and protector. Shiva accepts the proposal and moves to Meluha with his people. On their very first night, the Gunas wake up amid high fever and sweating. Ayurvati, the Chief of Medicine of the Meluhans, carries on the healing process. However, Ayurvati finds out that Shiva is the only one devoid of these symptoms and that his throat has turned blue. The Meluhans announce Shiva as the Neelkanth, their fabled savior.

The story then moves on little romantic note when Shive meets Sati and his attraction soon turns to respect, attraction, love and marriage. Sati refuses Shiva’s initial attempts and she is believes that she is cursed due to past lifes sins and she is untouchable under Meluhan laws. Sati is more worried about protecting Meluha from the terrorist attacks on its main research facility at Mount Mandar that killed.

Shiva announces himself Neelkanth and leads the Meluhan army against the Chandravanshis of Swadeep. With the Meluhan general Parvateshwar, he leads and encourages the army calling each of them as Mahadev – “Har Ek Mahadev – Har Har Mahadev”. The battle is won – but at Ayodhya – the capital of defeated Swadeep, Shiva finds Sati, now his wife getting attacked by a Naga!

The Second book, “Secret of Nagas” starts exactly from where “Immortals of Meluha” ended – with the attack on Sati by a fierce Naga. How they found reclusive residents of land beyond Ganga in the east – the Branga, and eventually met the Nagas of south the feared Dandak forest.

This book further etches out the character’s humane side, as Shiva explores to differentiate Good from Evil. It compares the near perfect lives of Meluhas against the chaotic lifestyle of Chandravanshis. How regimen of Meluha helps them to keep order while killing innovation and creativity, the very two aspects that marks the success of chaotic Chandravanshi way of life. Shiva’s journey slowly brings out the characters of his son Kartikeya and Sati’s estranged sister Kali and son Ganesh. It keeps you wondering how author’s treatment of characters explains so many myths of our Gods and Goddesses, and makes them so much believable. True to the captivating narrative with one surprise after another in the First book, the second one was no lesser. This book recreated the same effect at the end of “Immortal’s of Meluha”. Taking on the Third book “The Oath of the Vayuptra’s was uncontrollable and the eagerness to continue was immense.


The third and the final book in the Shiva Trilogy “The Oath of the Vayuputra’s” has just over 500 pages. To me this book does not get the same rating at the previous two books. I was extremely disappointed with the way the story unfolds in this book... the protagonist, Shiva who was supposed to demonstrate traits which will help him become a God from being a mere mortal, has been reduced to someone who has just got plain lucky from start. The real hero of this book is Sati, she steals the show with her valor, compassion, and for being the women-women. I was unable to read the book in full and it was just dragging and the events lacked suspense and speed. The fact at the end of the book, Shiva still remains nothing but a mortal being who was very lucky and blessed and exactly was what I had expected!!


After all, thanks to the Shiva trilogy, Shiva is now a living companion, an almost flesh and blood character whom I can reach out and touch!


Whatever said, a very big thanks to Amish for his errforts to make Shiva so dear to people.


Wednesday, February 27

Lifebuoy Advert...

A very touching advert from Lifebuoy, giving a message about infant deaths in India due to unhygienic living conditions. 



This Awareness & message should reached to one and all, especially among children.

Friday, February 22

The Handwriting on the Wall


The Handwriting on the Wall, very well illustrated here.

from:   Who Moved My Cheese by Spencer Johnson



Change Happens
They Keep Moving The Cheese

Anticipate Change
Get Ready For The Cheese To Move

Monitor Change
Smell The Cheese Often So You Know When It Is Getting Old

Adapt To Change Quickly
The Quicker You Let Go Of Old Cheese, The Sooner You Can Enjoy New Cheese

Change
Move With The Cheese

Enjoy Change!
Savor The Adventure And Enjoy The Taste Of New Cheese!

Be Ready To Change Quickly And Enjoy It Again
They Keep Moving The Cheese.


In case the above writing on the wall has interested you, then you could also download a copy from

Monday, February 11

Osho says. . .



"Nature has no Goals..Trees, Flowers, Birds , Animals have no Goals. The moment you set Goals for yourself, you are disconnected from Nature. Goals are source of all stress and strain."

Friday, February 8

Daughters...


A couple made a deal the night of their Marriage to NOT open the door of their room to anybody who comes knocking in the morning for any reason! 

In the morning the parents of the husband came and knocked on the door, the husband and the wife were looking at each other and as they agreed before, they didn't open the door. 

After a while the parents of the bride came knocking at the door to check on them, the couple were looking at each other, then the bride dropped a tear and started crying she said: “I cannot keep them knocking and not open the door, I miss them already” The husband didn't say anything and he let her open the door for her parents. 

Years and years passed and the couple had 5 children, the first ones were boys and the 5th was a little girl, when she was born the father was extremely happy that Almighty blessed him with her, and he threw a Huge Party for her in Grand style, people were so amazed with his joy and his happiness that they asked him, why are you so happy with her more than you were before with her older brothers? He answered simply: “She is the one who will open the door for me”

Baby girls are the comfort of the eyes of their father! They hold the key to their mothers hearts! Daughters are really unique. They care for their parents even after they are married. Its rightly said, “A son is a son till he gets a Wife, a daughter is a daughter the rest of her Life! Dedicated to all daughters and daughter in laws.

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I am blessed with the best Sister-In-Laws and my sweet lil princess daughter "Urvi". They are a set of fine ladies and to this list I will also add my ever loving and compassionate Mother and Wife...      These women are so special and I am glad to be a part of them.

Thursday, February 7

Parenting quote...


"You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth...

Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;

For even as He loves the arrow that flies, 

so He loves also the bow that is stable." 


-- Kahlil Gibran

Monday, December 31


"May this new year 2013 bring you and family
New Happiness,
New Goals,
New Achievements,
and a lot of
New Inspirations
on your life.
 With warm regards
 Premi, Urvi n Arun